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The Stressed & Disencouraged

Feeling the urge to jot this down..



Dear fellow bride-to-be,

What could be more worrisome than wedding planning is to actually see how you & your partner could collaborate as a team.
Because it may not be as what you expected.

There might be a lot of monologue;
You may feel so alone.
It may make you feel frustrated and dis-encouraged.

But hang in there & keep wishing for miracle.

:)

Whatever it may turn out;
It would be for the best. It would clarify things.
Whether strengthen the bond or make you grow patience.


Regards,
Annisa Ayuningtyas
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